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Are You Settling Or Adapting And Compromising ?

October 24, 2020

Are You Settling Or Adapting And Compromising ?

Good Morning Lovers, 

My thoughts this morning like many mornings where about relationships and how no two people are the same . Not even twins are the same. 

As humans we must learn that the beauty of one another and sharing a life with someone is how they enhance your world. The differences between one another are what makes it interesting . 

Often our default is to write off a relationship at the first sign of something we are not used to or discomfort , thinking " they aren't for me " but the truth is that we need to take the time to listen, learn and understand . Relationships take effort and even the biggest romantic such as myself knows that although the fantasy of boy meets girl and riding into the rose-lined sunset doesn't exist. 

Even the most solid beautiful relationships take work and adapting. It's not just about you , it's about the both of you. This person has lived their entire life without you and now you are trying to merge both of your lives together which comes with habits, characteristics , patterns and thoughts perhaps very different than your own. What may be the same or in alignment is your want and will to learn about one another and your dedication to doing so. 

So, it's not that you are settling for something other than your dream fairytale but rather adapting to the realities of developing the long lasting love you desire WHICH can still be a fairytale . 

Make Sense ? 





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