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ARE WE LAZY OR SCARED ?

December 18, 2020

ARE WE LAZY OR SCARED ?

 

Good Morning Beauties,


How are you? Feeling ok? "How is your heart?" a girlfriend always asks me. Yes, that's you Amy.


Recently, I was given a message through an energy reading "don't avoid what needs to be done" and during that time I also happen to read some memes on IG saying things like "procrastination is simply the fear of doing something uncomfortable" and I understood. I understood these messages that were being sent to me over and over.


Do you not check your mail because the anxiety that the possibility of a bill you weren't expecting is there? Do you leave things until the last minute because the task seems too large? Do you avoid looking at your bank account because you know the numbers are dropping and that feeling in your chest is something to avoid? Do you avoid confrontation and think it's because you are a nice person? Me too, but really if you dig deep you'll understand it is a choice you are making to avoid the feelings associated with confrontation like feeling emotional, needy and vulnerable.


What is on the other side of doing something you are fearful of? Instant relief, that's what. The minute you pay the bill, check that mail or say what you want to say is a lightness and relief. It's done. You faced it. There are things we cannot run from forever.

And running straight unto them seems scary but necessary. 

When you are procrastinating next time ask yourself "what am I scared of?" and I bet fear truly is the root to what you aren't wanting to do it unless of course its something like taking the garbage or doing the dishes. lol 

Have a wonderful day and do something nice for someone today. 

You are loved, 

Xo VaVa 

photo by my girl @audrey_gentile





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