Good Morning Gorgeous,
Have you ever heard that saying " you feel like home? ". I have and I've even said it and felt it. On one hand we are told that a partner should feel familiar and make us feel at home both emotionally and physically, right? I do believe that, well, I thought I did until I started this book , Welcome Home by Najwa Zebian.
My cousin sent it to me a few weeks ago knowing nothing about what is really going through my mind and just felt I would like it. Wasn't she right! I couldn't put it down.
The book pretty much breaks down the reasons and practices to create a home within ourselves and not have home reside in someone else. Make sense?
What she gets into is that if that person leaves you will then be and feel homeless. Right?
Have you ever been dating someone that you truthfully didn't even like much but when they left or it didn't work out or they mistreated you somehow you felt crushed, like your worth was gone? That's what's she's talking about. I'm sure you have been there, even one time in your life.
We get attached to the outcome of things and often the fantasy of things and so often this idea of something or someone will complete us.
When we create a home within ourselves we are always stable and nobody can take it away.
It is a great book that gets quite deep into this theory and I recommend if it this resonated with you.
Have a glorious day,
xo
